Sorry Mick 3 easy things I forgot to metion.
1/ Don't be scared to use the walkways to tie up and wait for help or the wind to die down ( as long as you don't leave it unatended).
2/ Berth bow first until the weather changes, there are still lots of members who only berth bow in.
3/ Call the marina on your VHF if you don't see anyone to help, they are more than hapy to come down and get you berthed.
Paul